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"Tell the child to listen to As a parent, you should not say things like this every day: When children keep clinging to you to ask one after another, you irritable say: “What do you ask so much? Think about it yourself! ”. When the child is not obediently greeting adults, are you often say: "You do not know the courtesy, since then you never take your child out!" When children are excited to tell about their dreams, do you often say: "It's nonsense, look at their learning achievements, quickly focus on learning!". Faced with lying kids, you often question: “Where to learn to lie? How dare you lie again and you fight for it... ”. Professor Martin, educational psychologist of Edinburgh University used to do the following multiple choice: He divided a group of children into two nests (note: random classification), then told the teacher: Group A is the children who study well, intelligently, have relatively good qualities. Group B consists of children who only have average learning, showing signs in all aspects are worse than the children in group A. Teachers find out the situation immediately proceed to educate them according to the program Professor Martin requested. After a semester, your learning achievements in Group A are better than the B. Later he performed many more tests, but the result remains the same, which proves that this is the power of insinuation. In other words, when parents ask their children to do what they do, they often have psychological opposition; When children are aware of what they need to do, they will try to do it. During this process, education method by insinuating plays a very important role. Of course, the observatory method is also positive and negative. The positive side, also known as positive obsession, can give children the opportunity to control their own scores, is the driving force that makes them harder. In everyday life, parents should use many positively obsessive words to replace requirements, criticize, avoid letting children feel unfamiliar, loss of self-esteem, ensuring relationships. close between parents and children. Besides the positive side, the negative side of the observatory method also greatly affects children. Unfortunately, many parents often create negative visions for their children in everyday life. From there, it makes children live in a period of pessimism, boredom, affecting the child's physiological development, making the relationship between parents and children worse. _____ _ _ ______ Issuing company Minh Long Author Hoa Duong (Aditor) Size 16x23 cm Publisher Women Publishing House Publish date 08-2013 Cover type Paperback Number of pages 240